Are you feeling stuck? Helpless to the events around you that drag you down? Comfortable and stable but unfulfilled and unhappy? I can promise you, you are not alone. It is time to take control of this game we call life and level up your life right now.
The negative and heavy emotions you feel right now can be caused by a multitude of things, people and events that happen to you. However, the way you deal with negativity, employ a positive mindset and overcome struggle is how you can start to make progress again.
Here are 10 ways you can Level Up your Life
1. Hell Yes!
When opportunities, responsibilities, and questions come around and your response is not a Hell Yes, then why would you say yes? Anything less than
If something comes along and you want to say hell yes, go for it! This is the kind of fist
Hell yes is a sign that you are on the right track, that you are progressing and putting yourself first. Say Hell Yes to you and your dreams right now.
Gratitude is a huge element of levelling up your life. When you are grateful for what you already have and have joy within yourself and your current life, you can begin to attract more positive, good things towards you.
Therefore, use a journal to write down everything that you are grateful for, right now and every day. Through gratitude, you will find a new appreciation for everything around you and see your level much more clearly. This will help you level up your life and raise your vibration to a whole new level and refresh your mind.
3. Love Yourself
This is so important! Self Love might even be your next level as it’s a huge challenge for many. When you don’t love yourself, you have such low self-esteem and no confidence to go after what you really desire, your fear of failure is through the roof, and you view yourself so negatively that it brings you down more.
To level up your life, you need to nurture yourself and love yourself. This will generate self-worth, self
4. Stop the Negative Stories
Something that holds everyone back are the negative stories we tell ourselves about ourselves. For example:
- I will never be rich or successful
- I am ugly and worthless
- The people around me are all selfish and negative
- Everything around me fails
- My life will always be a mess…
You know what you tell yourself. These thoughts can be from experience or assumptions that we make about our lives and ourselves, but they keep us stuck.
To change this means to level up. Instead, tell yourself positive stories from your successes and from your heart. Use daily affirmations to know that you are beautiful, talented, successful and able to achieve your dreams. This comes hand in hand with gratitude and self
Visualisation is an effective process in levelling up your life. Why you should visualise:
- Improved focus towards your goals
- Clarity and direction in life
- Motivation and inspiration to keep seeking your goals
- Boosts your morale and passion towards your dreams
- Helps you make better decisions with your interests in mind
Therefore, regularly visualising your goals, dreams and the life you want will start your level up immediately. This kind of motivation and inspiration does not come from anyone else but you, so hack into your power and strength to achieve your dreams through visualisation.
When you play a game, you might fail each level multiple times, but you do not stop trying to succeed. This is the kind of thought you need to apply to life. Be consistent in your activities and the steps you need to take to level up.
This is difficult, especially when faced with failure. However, knowing that it is a small set back, you can try again and continually make progress towards your goal. Pick life back up again, consistently try and try again until you win that level, and create the life you always wanted.
7. Leave the Comfort Zone
The comfort zone is your level that you get stuck. It is difficult and scary to leave the comfort zone behind because you are so content, the comfort zone is easy and it is predictable. You are not going to level up if you stay where it is safe.
So take risks, use your
8. A New Tribe
‘You’re the average of the five people you spend the most time with.’ – Jim Rohn
The people we surround ourselves with have a huge effect on our mindset, our choices thoughts, and motivation. By surrounding yourself with negative and limited people, you increase the chance of becoming that. This will greatly
Instead, seek out a new tribe of people that you really connect with, that boost you up and motivate you to become the person you want to be. Your new tribe will help you level up and bring you higher than before because of the skill they may have, their like-mindedness to you, the experience they may have, the positive outlook they have.
Fiction or non-fiction, any kind of reading will help you level up your life right now. Reading allows you to use your imagination, relax your mind from the hustle of life, inspire you and educate you, motivate and stimulate you. Any kind of take away from a book will enrich your life and mind.
This activity also gets you away from external influences such as social media. You will not be using up valuable time by scrolling through social media and comparing yourself to others. Instead, you will be nurturing your own mind and using the time more wisely to learn from others.
The stories you tell ourselves, the past failures you have experienced, the fear of failing and lack of confidence you have can all be lessened by you continually learning. If there is a skill you wish you had or need to improve on, learn it. If there is a job you want but do not know how to get it, learn it. There are failures and tests in life, learn from it.
There is always an opportunity for learning and expanding your knowledge. This action and thought will continuously aid you through life and all its levels because you know you are improving, growing and learning to be better.
Time to Level Up your Life right now
Use these tips and actions to start levelling up your life right now. Make the progress and growth you need to achieve your dreams and goals and live the life you have always dreamed of. At the end of the day, it comes down to you and no one else so take responsibility, put yourself first, and change the way you look at your life and your future.
Brittany is the mind behind and the creator of The Boldly Blog. Her goal is to inspire young women to start their personal development journey for their own self-development and self-discovery. Most importantly, she wants everyone to feel free to invest in themselves and their goals and be their true selves, unapologetically.